Mongoose Mantra.......Chanting is Lull Now..

Standing tall as one of the colourful events in India - IPL is swayed this time by the much talked Mongoose bat.......but the maraudering power has not been unleashed so far.This has given the critics a platform to belittle the modern accessories that are not becoming the integral part of cricket.

Here a question arises - Do we need to blame someone or just keep on motivating the players in improvising new methods for making it more ferocious game of bat n ball?

Many are of the opinion that this game gives an edge to the batsman in terms of accessories as contrastingly the bowler has only one kind of ball which he cannot keeps on changing with different sizes.

This is just the ability of the players that matters at the end of the day and not the willows like mongoose.I would say these accessory contribute 10% to the game but 90% comes from one's skills.Because not everyone carrying a Mongoose can just disappear the ball.He has to have his own abilities or else he is just trying to override his skills.This is strikingly similar to our minds performing at different levels.Everyone cannot perform all the tasks with same vigour but yes everyone can do different things to the very best which is bifurcated on the basis of their skillset.

The picture just calls to find out the right skillset and then implement it with right kind of accessories which will yield us positive results....So if someone has missed the big picture then its time to revisit it again......Try to implement it at the early stages so that fruits are sweet n not sour in taste....

Thinking of n+1th solution for a problem......

Of late I have come across this beautiful piece of thought which frames out the importance of never giving up on a problem....Almost all the time we try "n" number of approaches to find the solution,but always give up on "n+1" time which exactly is the right approach for end solution....

This clearly depicts the proven fact of never giving up on an obstacle,no matter where we stands on our way to the destiny. Every solution to a problem helps us in learning new methods that can be used for different problems.As Tom Hanks in one of his movie says "Life is a Box full of chocolates with different colours and you never know which will come next in your hand".....I will rephrase it slightly.."Life is a box full of obstacles and our role is to decrypt the pandora box to find out the next level of obstacle.At each stage we solves the mystery and we are blessed with happiness.:):)

But sometimes it happens to be a series of difficult obstacles which calls for greater efforts....there we might be faced with failures but in real terms that might be the wrong set of passcode we have used for unlocking the obstacle.So its time to try "n+1" combination which we

miss out in routine life..Who knows this is the perfect combination??????

Keep trying is what everyone says...so i will also join that group..:):)

Last few days with a friend....

Its really painful when u have to say goodbye to ur friends after spending quality time with them....This one thing opens up the emotional side of a human life....From the bottom of our heart we dont want our friends to part with us..But as everyone is destined towards different directions..things seems to fallout oddly for us....

Personal experience forces me to think...is this the last time i am seeing my friends or are we going to meet again at some point in our life?????I don't think this is the right time I can find the answer to this question...

It is like they become a part of our story(life is like a story for me:))and my belief says when we move farther from our friends..Their part in our story comes to an end..It is not something bad but we have already gained something or other from this friendship and its time to move on and make some more exciting friends....!!!!!

Meeting ppl n making interesting friends who affects our life is a continuous process and hence it should not get hogged up at a specific junction...

The Curious Case of Human Life..

This piece of thought is definitely inspired by the case of Benjamin Button....I must say impeccable script with amazing performance by Brad Pitt..!!!

This story has moved me to divert my thoughts towards a situation(if ever it comes) whereby you are asked to reverse you life and live it in a backward direction...It definitely sounds strange to me...But this one definitely inspires to fight against all odds and emerge as a true achiever.The attitude of taking out the results from the conditions(whatever it maybe) in this movie is really commendable.

This might be a fiction story...but it definitely fits in one of the aspects of human life..i.e unfavorable conditions for surviving.

Definitely worth watching..

Success and Failure - 7 Letter Words

Recently I got stumbled by one of the remarkable analysis of 2 words which are antonyms but they are like an integral part of human life....Success(Brighter word) and other one is Failure(Darker word).

If we dismantle these words to individual alphabets...then results is something like this:-

S - Sense of Direction

U - Understanding

C -Courage

C - Clarity

E - Esteem

S - Self-Confidence

S - Self-Acceptance

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F - Frustration

A - Aggressiveness(misdirected)

I - Insecurity

L - Loneliness

U - Uncertainty

R -Resentment

E - Emptiness

Researchers says that these are just the indicators of direction where we are currently heading to.So if we are falling in the 2nd category then we might need to ponder on the ways for making it fall in the first category.

This sounds more like a philosophy as real life depicts a completely different situation but even then we always know that practical knowledge is based on the theoretical though not completely.

So maybe we can pay a heed to this analysis...and at the end of day...its going to make a difference in the way we are leading our life..

!!!Capacity of Human Mind!!!

Our mind has been a constant point of attraction for researchers around the world..maybe because of its enormous complexity.But then a question arises in my mind..Do we need to bother about its existence,its capacity or just let it go like any other object in our life.
Maybe we can ponder on its capacity for a while as this will benefit our long term interests.So we can call our "Mind" as a big drawing room but yeah even though it is big,it has a limited space to accommodate all the furnitures,antiques blah,blah things.Here furnitures and other decorative items corresponds to our thoughts,ideas and memory storage.
As we know,We cannot keep the old furniture with the new one in the same room as there is a space crunch,likewise we cannot carry all the thoughts and ideas to the endpoint of our life.So then what's the best way to take these thoughts to fruition.The only viable solution is to put them into practice on the very first instance i.e just focus on the truest goals rather than running with a bunch of goals.
So once a short term goal is achieved,we can probably replace these thoughts with the new ones and hence this cycle goes on.This results in mutual benefits both for the owner of object and the Object - Human Mind itself.This stops us from making our mind a garbage box and also this replacement cycle keeps our mind free of "Rusting".

There is no dearth of varieties of furniture(thoughts) in this world but yes there is a big problem of "Space" everywhere.Let us utilize this space judiciously to avail the maximum benefit from our MIND.

!!!Fear & Desire!!!

As desire makes us to go all out of our abilities and achieve something.........Whether its personal or professional....doesnt matters...

Fear,mostly takes the -ve part and as we do want to face the reality or truth, we act on to stop the events so that consequences are not visible........

Desire can again be classified as true desires & false desires.......

Something we desire for the survival becomes Needs....on the other hand something we desire after seeing the mankind is called as Wants,which if not attained....not going to stop us from leading a happy Life.....

The line of difference is very hazy and we need to make it dark according to our perception...

!!!Development - Matters Most!!!

Going by the recent LS election results....its clear that we need to go for development in all fields rather than attracting people on the basis of caste,creed n society............

People voted for those who had done a good job for their areas....

Development in other way is applicable for human beings......as like if u go n develop one particular set of skills the body parts get used to it...n they starts favouring it......

So what we can do is try to develop allround skills which makes use of our brain equally....

!!Fear of Change!!!

We behave like a group of tadpoles who are living together in a deep water........As if anyone of them try to come out and try something new or change the tradition,we will pull him back............Just because we are afraid of Change ......Change that could affect us either directly or indirectly.....

But we are least bothered that if Change gets implemented in our life...........it will transform our lives internally & externally...

Only if we can change our attitude,mentality & perception then only we can expand our horizon of life on this earth and that will define our purpose of existence..........

Desperation....

As tendency in human beings,we & our well-wishers always try to compare ourselves with others in terms of success achieved...........But they forget the basic rules of comparison that unless & untill the foundation is same between 2 persons to be compared...u cannot compare them.........

2 persons cannot have same level of intellectuality,thinking or response time to questions.....hence we cannot compare ourselves with others.......

!!!Human Mind - When Subjected to Failures!!!

Going by the Human nature...I would say that our mind yields positive & progressive thoughts when we blessed with success & happiness,but once we are stumbled in our path of life....Mind will start generating negative vibes,frequencies which will keep on multiplying by itself & hence it becomes a non-stop cycle......

Hold on........To get back to the best frame of mind....work against -ve frequencies.....increase once immunity against failures...then only we will be back on track....

Life is always a bag of surprises and hence there should be stones on our path of life so that we are prepared for anything that goes wrong in life....which will not be if we are blessed with continuous happiness.

!!!Jealousy & Darkness Are Synonyms!!!

As things makes us to believe that there is something called as "Jealousy"....But in reality it does not exist......It is just the absence of knowledge & awareness from the human mind..just like Darkness is the absence of light.Darkness does not have any significant presence.But we are bound to believe about the darkness as an integral part of our life....
Life is like a ladder on which are placed on a certain position & when we try to beat the people who are above us on the ladder then the jealousy comes into existence.On the contrary,people below gives us a sense of happiness as we need not worry about their position.We always have the option of jumping off the ladder but the fear of being left alone in the battle of life stops us from taking the step..
We cannot ignore the thoughts of jealousy going on in our mind but definitely we can try to become more centred about our life which will reap positive benefits for us.