Opinion by Others....Matters?

We are living in 21st century which is dominated by fierce competitors ranging from FMCG products,automobiles,telecom,sports etc.A lot many options are now feasible for everyone and we term as CHOICES.........so what does this word signifies?

On a broader perspective, human mind is entangled with choices and this has affected the critical aspect of decision making.Once human mind is confused or its thinking is barricaded,it seeks aslyum in other human minds.This gives rise to networking(a common man phrase in 21st century) of minds which is virtual in nature but plays a bigger role in defining the path of a human being.Sometimes getting influenced by opinion of the people around us results in sweet fruits but may also gives us ripen jack in certain cases.So where is the tread-off ??? I will say it depends more on type of category under which opinion falls.So lets say if we are considering politics - which is never gonna be a one man show, it eliminates the blame-game from the head of single fellow and joint decision goes unnoticed without any pinpointing.

Consider sports and we look for teamwork, which definitely calls for opinion by others but that should never be a decision else it creates stir and affects the ultimate goal.Decision should be made by a single human mind.

FMCG and consumer durables....this category is affecting million of lives everyday as they are the most widely used.Buying a single product amid 20 choices(different offers) calls for human networking of minds.This creates a lot of confusion and heck...what should i buy finally??

Everyone talks of making instant decisions in this fast moving world..People do often check the capability of human mind.It seems like we should start giving importance to OPINIONS..!!!

Long Time No See...!!!!

This commonly n widely used phrase depicts the importance of people all around the world.At the same time ppl are busy n infact getting serious with their work n life..Trying to achieve something or maybe wants to cross the finish line on 1st place....

But these days when we talk about social networking then this has become an extinct kind of jargon.Thanks to these sites(I won't name them here as everyone is already loggedin on one of these sites), they have contributed towards typing speed n lil bit in humorous thinking n yeah in developing accuracy along with addiction for online games.So in short business is on the rise for games creators,ad-houses and last but not the least some big bucks for founders of these sites..

Every success/good thing in this world is tagged with a negative vibe and so this brings in lawyers,police and dealers into play and all of these guys are trying to cash-in before river goes dry.So this is a wide playing field.

Mongoose Mantra.......Chanting is Lull Now..

Standing tall as one of the colourful events in India - IPL is swayed this time by the much talked Mongoose bat.......but the maraudering power has not been unleashed so far.This has given the critics a platform to belittle the modern accessories that are not becoming the integral part of cricket.

Here a question arises - Do we need to blame someone or just keep on motivating the players in improvising new methods for making it more ferocious game of bat n ball?

Many are of the opinion that this game gives an edge to the batsman in terms of accessories as contrastingly the bowler has only one kind of ball which he cannot keeps on changing with different sizes.

This is just the ability of the players that matters at the end of the day and not the willows like mongoose.I would say these accessory contribute 10% to the game but 90% comes from one's skills.Because not everyone carrying a Mongoose can just disappear the ball.He has to have his own abilities or else he is just trying to override his skills.This is strikingly similar to our minds performing at different levels.Everyone cannot perform all the tasks with same vigour but yes everyone can do different things to the very best which is bifurcated on the basis of their skillset.

The picture just calls to find out the right skillset and then implement it with right kind of accessories which will yield us positive results....So if someone has missed the big picture then its time to revisit it again......Try to implement it at the early stages so that fruits are sweet n not sour in taste....

Thinking of n+1th solution for a problem......

Of late I have come across this beautiful piece of thought which frames out the importance of never giving up on a problem....Almost all the time we try "n" number of approaches to find the solution,but always give up on "n+1" time which exactly is the right approach for end solution....

This clearly depicts the proven fact of never giving up on an obstacle,no matter where we stands on our way to the destiny. Every solution to a problem helps us in learning new methods that can be used for different problems.As Tom Hanks in one of his movie says "Life is a Box full of chocolates with different colours and you never know which will come next in your hand".....I will rephrase it slightly.."Life is a box full of obstacles and our role is to decrypt the pandora box to find out the next level of obstacle.At each stage we solves the mystery and we are blessed with happiness.:):)

But sometimes it happens to be a series of difficult obstacles which calls for greater efforts....there we might be faced with failures but in real terms that might be the wrong set of passcode we have used for unlocking the obstacle.So its time to try "n+1" combination which we

miss out in routine life..Who knows this is the perfect combination??????

Keep trying is what everyone says...so i will also join that group..:):)

Last few days with a friend....

Its really painful when u have to say goodbye to ur friends after spending quality time with them....This one thing opens up the emotional side of a human life....From the bottom of our heart we dont want our friends to part with us..But as everyone is destined towards different directions..things seems to fallout oddly for us....

Personal experience forces me to think...is this the last time i am seeing my friends or are we going to meet again at some point in our life?????I don't think this is the right time I can find the answer to this question...

It is like they become a part of our story(life is like a story for me:))and my belief says when we move farther from our friends..Their part in our story comes to an end..It is not something bad but we have already gained something or other from this friendship and its time to move on and make some more exciting friends....!!!!!

Meeting ppl n making interesting friends who affects our life is a continuous process and hence it should not get hogged up at a specific junction...

The Curious Case of Human Life..

This piece of thought is definitely inspired by the case of Benjamin Button....I must say impeccable script with amazing performance by Brad Pitt..!!!

This story has moved me to divert my thoughts towards a situation(if ever it comes) whereby you are asked to reverse you life and live it in a backward direction...It definitely sounds strange to me...But this one definitely inspires to fight against all odds and emerge as a true achiever.The attitude of taking out the results from the conditions(whatever it maybe) in this movie is really commendable.

This might be a fiction story...but it definitely fits in one of the aspects of human life..i.e unfavorable conditions for surviving.

Definitely worth watching..

Success and Failure - 7 Letter Words

Recently I got stumbled by one of the remarkable analysis of 2 words which are antonyms but they are like an integral part of human life....Success(Brighter word) and other one is Failure(Darker word).

If we dismantle these words to individual alphabets...then results is something like this:-

S - Sense of Direction

U - Understanding

C -Courage

C - Clarity

E - Esteem

S - Self-Confidence

S - Self-Acceptance

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F - Frustration

A - Aggressiveness(misdirected)

I - Insecurity

L - Loneliness

U - Uncertainty

R -Resentment

E - Emptiness

Researchers says that these are just the indicators of direction where we are currently heading to.So if we are falling in the 2nd category then we might need to ponder on the ways for making it fall in the first category.

This sounds more like a philosophy as real life depicts a completely different situation but even then we always know that practical knowledge is based on the theoretical though not completely.

So maybe we can pay a heed to this analysis...and at the end of day...its going to make a difference in the way we are leading our life..